Breaking Stigma: Myths About Mental Health Therapy

Separating Fact from Fiction: What Therapy Really Is (and Isn’t)

Myths

  • Therapy is only for people with serious mental health problems.

Reality

  • Therapy is for anyone who wants to understand themselves better, develop emotional tools, or navigate challenges—big or small. It’s a proactive step toward mental well-being, not just a last resort.
  • I should be able to figure out my problems on my own.
  • You don’t have to face everything alone. Therapy provides an unbiased, professional perspective and tools to help you tackle challenges more effectively. Seeking help shows strength, not weakness.
  • Talking to a therapist is like talking to a friend.
  • While friends offer support, therapists are trained professionals who provide evidence-based techniques, tailored strategies, and a safe, judgment-free space for growth.
  • Therapy takes years to see results.
  • Everyone’s journey is unique, but many people experience significant breakthroughs or relief within a few sessions. Therapy is about progress, not perfection.

  • Therapy is too expensive and not worth it.
  • Therapy is an investment in your mental health, relationships, and overall well-being. Many therapists offer sliding-scale fees, and the long-term benefits often outweigh the costs.
  • If I start therapy, I’ll need it forever.
  • Therapy isn’t a lifetime commitment. It’s a tool you can use when needed, whether that’s for a few sessions or during specific life challenges.

  • Therapists will tell me what to do.
  • Therapists don’t dictate your choices. They guide you toward self-discovery, helping you make decisions that align with your values and goals.

  • I’ll feel judged if I share my problems.
  • A therapist’s role is to listen without judgment and create a safe space where you can express yourself freely.
  • Therapists will tell me how I should feel.
  • Therapists help you understand and process your feelings, but they’ll never dictate how you should feel. Your emotions are valid and yours to own.
  • I’ll become dependent on my therapist.
  • Therapy is designed to empower you with skills so you can confidently navigate challenges on your own over time.
  • Therapists will force me to talk about things I don’t want to.
  • You set the pace in therapy. A good therapist will never push you beyond what you’re ready to explore.

Why Counselling With Bryn O’Reilly?

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I have undergone expert counselling training and supervision in South Africa.

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I have been a patient of psychotherapy for as long as I’ve been a practitioner of it. I retain, therefore, a deep connection to the perspectives and vulnerabilities of the patient.

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I tailor my therapies to meet your idiosyncratic needs, focusing on your unique emotional goals and aim to foster a collaborative and empowering environment.

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I provide both in-person and online therapy to patients in Portugal (and internationally, as needed).

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I value and respect people from various backgrounds, with diverse experiences and from different cultural contexts, thereby creating an inclusive and affirming space for everyone to explore their inner world.

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I value your privacy and operate under strict confidentiality with strong privacy protocols.

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